Saturday, March 29, 2014

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"为点小事都能和别人吵起来,吵到后来就忘了争吵的原因是什么,只拼命想要证明自己,到最后伤人伤己。后来发觉少说一句话又不会死,一个人越恶毒遭受的回馈也就越恶毒,给别人台阶下就是给自己台阶下。与其嘴上争论别人是错误的,不如行动证明自己是正确的。争吵是这世界上最浪费时间的事。"

争“吵”,该争的是谁的“口”最“少”。
Do not lengthen the quarrel while there is an opportunity of escaping. The first to escape wins.

Today, when I saw this post by Owen Yap in the morning, I recalled back about the unhappy things between me and Siao Fong. 

It is correct, when there is a war, each opponent want to knock off the other, and at the end, both are injured. 

Most of the time, tolerance is the best friend in a relationship.Without tolerance, a relationship will just fade away. Just like a concentrated dye being dissolved in the pool of water. 

                                                                                                                                                         

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