Due to some reasons today, I'm not able to fetch XF by car. But I did not want to let her down, so I fetched her by bicycle!
When she finished her work, she kept asking me:"Where are your bicycle!"
I asked her to look in front,and she saw nothing but a bicycle.
She was quite nervous initially because she never fetched by a boy with bicyle!
I spent around 25 minutes to fetch her to her house.
What I will not forget today was, she hold my waist tightly .And 1 more scenario was: I asked her whether she felt hungry or not! Haha She thought I will bring her to eat but I did not and called her to eat at home.Lol what a BF haha!
The most happier moment is the time you are around me ! We can chat for anythings.We enjoy beautiful scenery together.We enjoy good food together. And we selfie together.Until now we got over hundreds over photos! Each photo represent each moments we were bound together.
TQ XF You make my DAY :)
Friday, January 3, 2014
3.1.2014
When I saw the message from XF telling me that she got a little bit of uncomfortable, I quickly arranged things and went to find her.To be honest, although it may seem quite common for a girl to have some uncomfortable during certain day in a month, but I still feel some unassured. I speed up my car and reached her house in a few minutes drive.(My fastest record ever to reach her house in such short time.)
When I reached her house, She was not in. I was so nervous. Where did she been?
Then, I realized she went out to buy somethings, and I ran toward her and felt some relief.I had a big breath.
She was busying to prepare herself a hot ginger tea. It was really very hot.I saw her drinking drips by drips slowly.
What appeared in my mind at that moment was
"It is not easy to be a woman, there are a lot of things to worry of, so it is the duty and responsibility of a man to take care of his woman "
XF,I know, I'm imperfect, I make you sad and worries sometimes.
Let's us grow together!
TQ XF, you have been with me all of the times! Our 3rd year <3 br="" i="" love="" you="">
When I reached her house, She was not in. I was so nervous. Where did she been?
Then, I realized she went out to buy somethings, and I ran toward her and felt some relief.I had a big breath.
She was busying to prepare herself a hot ginger tea. It was really very hot.I saw her drinking drips by drips slowly.
What appeared in my mind at that moment was
"It is not easy to be a woman, there are a lot of things to worry of, so it is the duty and responsibility of a man to take care of his woman "
XF,I know, I'm imperfect, I make you sad and worries sometimes.
Let's us grow together!
TQ XF, you have been with me all of the times! Our 3rd year <3 br="" i="" love="" you="">
Thursday, January 2, 2014
1st Page ! A Good start
Went to watch 47 Ronin at Sunway Plaza in the afternoon with ny brother.
My dear was there shopping too~
It was so timely that I saw my dear face to face when I walked out from popular! Haha .
She gave me a punch in popular because of scaring her suddenly from the back when she was so concentrating to advise her sister on buying reference books.HAHA she shouted so loud ! My fault!
I bought a book too"Winning the Game of Stock " from Adam Khoo^_^
Good night my friends\(^o^)/YES！
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
365 blank pages.
2013 had ended and let's us step into 2014~
2013 was a meaningful and significant year for me.
1.Found my interest and changed course to Biomedical Engineering for bio stream.
2.Relationship begin with Siaofong after 2 years.
3.Step into Share market and learn a lot of things.
4.Learn to be more independent living in big cities.
5.Trip,outings,photo shooting, exercise,and so on with XF.
2013 was a year of happiness,sadness and nervousness!
Let's us forget about the bad things happened in 2013 and step into 2014 with courage and wisdom.
2014 will be a tough year for most of us as the government had changed a few measures and will be implemented at 1.1.2014.
Good luck to all my friends!
2013 was a meaningful and significant year for me.
1.Found my interest and changed course to Biomedical Engineering for bio stream.
2.Relationship begin with Siaofong after 2 years.
3.Step into Share market and learn a lot of things.
4.Learn to be more independent living in big cities.
5.Trip,outings,photo shooting, exercise,and so on with XF.
2013 was a year of happiness,sadness and nervousness!
Let's us forget about the bad things happened in 2013 and step into 2014 with courage and wisdom.
2014 will be a tough year for most of us as the government had changed a few measures and will be implemented at 1.1.2014.
Good luck to all my friends!
Friday, December 20, 2013
[转帖] 看懂了，等于读了3年MBA！
[转帖] 看懂了，等于读了3年MBA！
人不成熟的第一个特征：就是立即要回报。
他不懂得只有春天播种，秋天才会收获。很多人在做任何事情的时候，刚刚付出一点点，马上就要得到回报。（学钢琴，学英语等等，刚开始就觉得难，发现不行， 立即就要放弃。）很多人做生意，开始没有什么成绩，就想着要放弃，有的人一个月放弃，有的人三个月放弃，有的人半年放弃，有的人一年放弃，我不明白人们为 什么轻易放弃，但是我知道，放弃是一种习惯，一种典型失败者的习惯。所以说你要有眼光，要看得更远一些，眼光是用来看未来的！
对在生活中有放弃习惯的人，有一句话一定要送给你：＂成功者永不放弃，放弃者永不成功＂。那为什么很多的人做事容易放弃呢？美国著名成功学大师拿破仑希尔说过:
穷人有两个非常典型的心态：
1、永远对机会说：“不”；
2、总想 “一夜暴富”。
今天你把什么机会都放到他的面前，他都会说 “不”。就是今天你开饭店很成功，你把你开饭店的成功经验，发自内心的告诉你的亲朋好友，让他们也去开饭店，你能保证他们每个人都会开饭店吗？是不是照样有人不干。
所以这是穷人一个非常典型的心态，他会说：“你行，我可不行！”。一夜暴富的表现在于，你跟他说任何的生意，他的第一个问题就是 “挣不挣钱”，你 说 “挣钱”，他马上就问第二个问题 “容易不容易”，你说 “容易”，这时他跟着就问第三个问题 “快不快”，你说 “快”！这时他就说 “好，我 做！”呵呵，你看，他就这么的幼稚！
大家想一想，在这个世界上有没有一种： “又挣钱，又容易，又快的”，没有的，即使有也轮不到我们啊，所以说在生活中，我们一定要懂得付出。那为什 么你要付出呢？因为你是为了追求你的梦想而付出的，人就是为了希望和梦想活着的，如果一个人没有梦想，没有追求的话，那一辈子也就没有什么意义了！
在生活中你想获得什么，你就得先付出什么。你想获得时间，你就得先付出时间，你想获得金钱，你得先付出金钱。你想得到爱好，你得先牺牲爱好。你想和家人有更多的时间在一起，你先得和家人少在一起。
但是，有一点是明确的，你在这个项目中的付出，将会得到加倍的回报。就像一粒种子，你把它种下去以后，然后浇水，施肥，锄草，杀虫。最后你收获的是不是几十倍，上百倍的回报。
在生活中，你一定要懂得付出，你不要那么急功近利，马上想得到回报，天下没有白吃的午餐，你轻轻松松是不可能成功的。
一定要懂得先付出！
人不成熟的第二个特征：就是不自律。
不自律的主要表现在哪里呢？
一、不愿改变自己：
你要改变自己的思考方式和行为模式。你要改变你的坏习惯。其实，人与人之间能力是没有多大区别，区别在于思考方式的不同。一件事情的发生，你去问成功者和失败者，他们的回答是不一样的，甚至是相违背的。
我们今天的不成功是因为我们的思考方式不成功。一个好的公式是：当你种植一个思考的种子，你就会有行动的收获，当你把行动种植下去，你会有习惯的收获，当你再把习惯种植下去，你就会有个性的收获，当你再把个性种植下去，就会决定你的命运。
但是如果你种植的是一个失败的种子，你得到的一定是失败，如果你种植的是一个成功的种子，那么你就一定会成功。
很多人有很多的坏习惯，如：看电视，打麻将，喝酒，泡舞厅，他们也知道这样的习惯不好，但是他们为什么不愿意改变呢？因为很多人宁愿忍受那些不好的生活方式，也不愿意忍受改变带来的痛苦。
二、愿意背后议论别人：
如果在生活中，你喜欢议论别人的话，有一天一定会传回去，中国有一句古话，论人是非者，定是是非人。
三、消极，抱怨：
你在生活中喜欢那些人呢？是那些整天愁眉苦脸，整天抱怨这个抱怨哪个的人，还是喜欢那些整天开开心心的人。如果你在生活中是那些抱怨的，消极的人的话，你一定要改变你性格中的缺陷。如果你不改变的话，你是很难适应这个社会的。你也是很难和别人合作的。
生活当中你要知道，你怎样对待生活，生活也会怎样对待你，你怎样对待别人，别人也会怎样对待你。所以你不要消极，抱怨。你要积极，永远的积极下去，就是那句话：成功者永不抱怨，抱怨者永不成功。
人不成熟的第三个特征：经常被情绪所左右。
一个人成功与否，取决于五个因素：
（1）学会控制情绪
（2）健康的身体
（3）良好的人际关系
（4）时间管理
（5）财务管理
如果你想成功，一定要学会管理好这五个因素，为什么把情绪放在第一位呢？把健康放在第二位呢？是因为如果你再强的身体，如果你情绪不好，就会影响到 你的身体，现在一个人要成功20%靠的是智商，80%靠的是情商，所以你要控制好你的情绪，情绪对人的影响是非常大的。人与人之间，不要为了一点点小事 情，就暴跳如雷，这样是不好的。
所以在生活中，你要养成什么样的心态呢？你要养成 “三不”，“三多”：
不批评、不抱怨、不指责；
多鼓励、多表扬、多赞美。
你就会成为一个受社会大众欢迎的人。如果你想让你的伙伴更加的优秀，很简单，永远的激励和赞美他们。
即使他们的确有毛病，那应该怎么办呢？这时是不是应该给他们建议，在生活中你会发现有这样一个现象，有人给别人建议的时候，别人能够接受，但是有建议的时候别人就会生气。其实建议的方式是最重要的，就是 “三明治” 赞美，建议，再赞美！
想一想，你一天赞美了几个人，有的人可能以为赞美就是吹捧，就是拍马屁。赞美和吹捧是有区别的，赞美有四个特点：
（1）是真诚的
（2）是发自内心的
（3）被大众所接受的
（4）无私的
如果你带有很强的目的性去赞美，那就是拍马屁。当你赞美别人时候，你要大声的说出来，当你想批评别人的时候，一定要咬住你的舌头！
人不成熟的第四个特征：不愿学习，自以为是，没有归零心态。
其实人和动物之间有很多的相似之处，动物的自我保护意识比人更强（婴儿与小猪）但是，人和动物最大的区别在于，人会学习，人会思考。人是要不断学习的，你 千万不要把你的天赋潜能给埋没了，一定要学习，一定要有一个空杯的心态。我们像谁去学习呢？就是直接向成功人士学习！
你要永远学习积极正面的东西，不看，不听那些消极，负面的东西。一旦你吸收了那些有毒的思想，它会腐蚀你的心灵和人生的。在这个知识经济的时代里， 学习是你通向未来的唯一护照。在这样一个速度，变化，危机的时代，你只有不断的学习你才不会被这个时代所抛弃，一定要有学习，归零的心态。去看每一个人的 优点，“三人行，必有我师也”！
Friday, October 18, 2013
Times make you know a person better
I know her for nearly 2 years (since 7.12.2011). The last day of SPM. I still remember how I knew her. She sent a message to me via fb and then we started to chat and exchange the phone number.
Her mum always told me that if she went out with her friends that day, then maybe we are still a stranger now.
I really appreciate this relationship and I'm very thankful to GOD for letting her came into my life coloring my life.
Because of her I know I need to take care feelings of others, I must have the responsibilities as a man, and most importantly she make me to know what is LOVE.
Some would say that love is selfless, you would sacrifice everything for her.I agreed in this statement but I would say love is the deep feeling inside your heart that make you a better person. You care for her, and you will never do anythings that depress her.
From the 1st day I knew her, I found there is a big change in her. She started to have her ambitious and also DREAMS. I see so much improvement in her, really proud with her,XF ♥ You are the best in my heart.
I always told XF , everyone has his/her capabilities and one should not underestimate himself/herself. God created us in the same and fair way. You are the only 1 exist in this world, YOU ARE YOU.You have your own uniqueness and your strength. It.takes time to discover.
XF remember what I told you ^_^ We are at the same boat now ,and there is not captain at the boat.Both of us are the same, we have the same strength and let's us roll together.
I"ll be with you through the darkness and happiness.I hope you will also be around me whenever I'm in trouble and take care of me also :)
XF, Distance does not separate us. It makes our relationship even stronger. I love you XF , you are my girl ♥
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
15.10.2013
I was so shocked when XF suddenly said why I reply her message so short.She asked me whether I like it or not if she did the same things. I'm blur blur at the moment, then only I realized that she did not received my msg.
I called her for a few times, and she did not want to accept. She put down my call every time. I'm getting nervous and hope that she will not angry with me.
After she finished her lunch, she agreed to listen to my explainations. I explained everything to her, and we solved the misunderstanding among us.
Every time, I told myself it's important to calm down myself and analyses the problems. It's very important to talk with my partner rather than give each other silent treatment.
When we talk out, we know the problem.When we know the problem than only we know how to solve it. When we solve it, we make sure the problem will not re-occur for the next time. Hide the problem, will only make the problem become worsen and the relationship to fade.
Getting into relationship is easy, but how we sustain the relationship is different story :)
忍一时风平浪静，退一步海过天空...
I called her for a few times, and she did not want to accept. She put down my call every time. I'm getting nervous and hope that she will not angry with me.
After she finished her lunch, she agreed to listen to my explainations. I explained everything to her, and we solved the misunderstanding among us.
Every time, I told myself it's important to calm down myself and analyses the problems. It's very important to talk with my partner rather than give each other silent treatment.
When we talk out, we know the problem.When we know the problem than only we know how to solve it. When we solve it, we make sure the problem will not re-occur for the next time. Hide the problem, will only make the problem become worsen and the relationship to fade.
Getting into relationship is easy, but how we sustain the relationship is different story :)
忍一时风平浪静，退一步海过天空...
Monday, October 14, 2013
13.10.2013
今天最舍不得的就是我家人和晓风.
早上六点多开车，七点多就到金宝了，大家开开心心地吃完早餐，然后就载哥哥回宿舍了。
跟哥哥道别了好多次。
然后，爸爸开车载我回KL。十点半就到了，家人帮我整理房间，整理到一小时多。妈妈看到我衣橱不整齐帮我一件一件拿出来，在折回去，看到后，真的很感动！
过后我们去附近的Shopping买些东西，在那里爸爸拿了两百块给我，爸爸总是一个人在外打拼，为了就是这个家，他从来不让家人饿着。他早出完归，从来没半句埋怨。
过后妈妈带我去买鞋，今天早上出门BLUR BLUR 穿错鞋，一边黑，一边蓝。妈妈看到后带我进Parkson找鞋，选了好久，我选了HUSH PUPPIES。（RM69.99）这是我吃到这样大，买过第一双最贵的鞋！我妈用自己的钱帮我还，当我拿钱给我妈时，她一直说不用不用！鞋很重要！我真的很感动
我有世上最好的爸爸妈妈，虽然小时我很叛逆，但他们从来对我都没放弃过我,总是把最好的都留给我们！
道别那刻，才知道脸泪已经滑落下来，我爱你爸爸妈妈...
早上六点多开车，七点多就到金宝了，大家开开心心地吃完早餐，然后就载哥哥回宿舍了。
跟哥哥道别了好多次。
然后，爸爸开车载我回KL。十点半就到了，家人帮我整理房间，整理到一小时多。妈妈看到我衣橱不整齐帮我一件一件拿出来，在折回去，看到后，真的很感动！
过后我们去附近的Shopping买些东西，在那里爸爸拿了两百块给我，爸爸总是一个人在外打拼，为了就是这个家，他从来不让家人饿着。他早出完归，从来没半句埋怨。
过后妈妈带我去买鞋，今天早上出门BLUR BLUR 穿错鞋，一边黑，一边蓝。妈妈看到后带我进Parkson找鞋，选了好久，我选了HUSH PUPPIES。（RM69.99）这是我吃到这样大，买过第一双最贵的鞋！我妈用自己的钱帮我还，当我拿钱给我妈时，她一直说不用不用！鞋很重要！我真的很感动
我有世上最好的爸爸妈妈，虽然小时我很叛逆，但他们从来对我都没放弃过我,总是把最好的都留给我们！
道别那刻，才知道脸泪已经滑落下来，我爱你爸爸妈妈...
14.10.2013
My 1st day of Y1S2.
早上去等巴士，看到菜头和他的朋友在吃roti canai， 我也去和他们谈谈天。
然后，tumpang他朋友的车去学校。
今天六点多就起床了，因为要去OFFICE 弄时间表的东西。
上了Emotional Intelligence 觉得有点困，因为那个Lecturer要我们去偷拍人家个种个样的emotion==
休息了一小时，就去上Power System ，给一个我喜欢的老师教，MR.WKS。因为他，我的Basic Electronic 得救了！
接下来German Language， 觉得还蛮有兴趣的，给一个幽默女讲师教。她告诉我们关于许多德国的东西.
What I most amazed is this.
There is no maximum speed in this highway but there is minimum speed for it. You will get tickets when You Drive Too SLOW ! Yaya, this is not a joke.
Source:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/German_autobahns
After that, she guided us for few simple words such as Afpel(Apple), Maus(Mouse),
and etc.
What I noticed in her is that she like to say:"Good boy; Yaya"==Lol
Finished my class today at 4pm and went to borrow 2 books for Power System. By the time I walked out from the library, the sky starts to pour out. It's raining cats and dogs. It was too late to realize that I do not carry any umbrealla with me.I ran for a distance.
When I reached home, I went to eat orange then only bath.
Suddenly, my landlord came into my room and said he need a help. He said there are problems for internet. He had called for maintenance and he need me to stay in the room for Wednesday
I agreed. He gave me the task of leader (RM20 discount per month!)
早上去等巴士，看到菜头和他的朋友在吃roti canai， 我也去和他们谈谈天。
然后，tumpang他朋友的车去学校。
今天六点多就起床了，因为要去OFFICE 弄时间表的东西。
上了Emotional Intelligence 觉得有点困，因为那个Lecturer要我们去偷拍人家个种个样的emotion==
休息了一小时，就去上Power System ，给一个我喜欢的老师教，MR.WKS。因为他，我的Basic Electronic 得救了！
接下来German Language， 觉得还蛮有兴趣的，给一个幽默女讲师教。她告诉我们关于许多德国的东西.
What I most amazed is this.
 | |||||
| GERMAN AUTOBAHNS |
There is no maximum speed in this highway but there is minimum speed for it. You will get tickets when You Drive Too SLOW ! Yaya, this is not a joke.
Source:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/German_autobahns
After that, she guided us for few simple words such as Afpel(Apple), Maus(Mouse),
and etc.
What I noticed in her is that she like to say:"Good boy; Yaya"==Lol
Finished my class today at 4pm and went to borrow 2 books for Power System. By the time I walked out from the library, the sky starts to pour out. It's raining cats and dogs. It was too late to realize that I do not carry any umbrealla with me.I ran for a distance.
When I reached home, I went to eat orange then only bath.
Suddenly, my landlord came into my room and said he need a help. He said there are problems for internet. He had called for maintenance and he need me to stay in the room for Wednesday
I agreed. He gave me the task of leader (RM20 discount per month!)
12.10.2013
Went Victoria Restaurant to eat with XF's family and her small aunt's family.
XF's mum and small aunt gave me an assignment. They hope that XF's phone can be confisticated until XF finish her STPM, so that she can be focus more and do more preparation.
I was really shocked and definitely felt some stress, because they have totally ignoring me.
After finishing the dinner, we went Sunway for a walk. I didn't talk with XF for a long time until she asked me, do I have any intention to give up in this relationship.
I answered honestly.
I gave XF silent treatment for a few minutes, until I explained to her.
I really no need you to accompany me often. What I needed is just that, you can send me a sms when you want to sleep and so on.
I told XF the secret hide inside myself. I told her everything.
She gave me a hug and said "I LOVE YOU."
This was the 1st time she told me orally. I was really touched. She has hide it for so long, and I waited for nearly 2 years!
We gave each other a Goodbye hug.
XF what I want to tell you is that no matter what is the circumstances and the obstacles staying in front, I'll hold your hand tightly and we will face it and solve it together. I LOVE YOU!
I just want you to be my girl forever.
Let's work harder for our future ! Work together to achieve our dream and targets!
Good Luck XF.I will always be with you throughout the happiness and sadness!
BRO STAY STRONG! 2 more months to go until the next meet!
XF's mum and small aunt gave me an assignment. They hope that XF's phone can be confisticated until XF finish her STPM, so that she can be focus more and do more preparation.
I was really shocked and definitely felt some stress, because they have totally ignoring me.
After finishing the dinner, we went Sunway for a walk. I didn't talk with XF for a long time until she asked me, do I have any intention to give up in this relationship.
I answered honestly.
I gave XF silent treatment for a few minutes, until I explained to her.
I really no need you to accompany me often. What I needed is just that, you can send me a sms when you want to sleep and so on.
I told XF the secret hide inside myself. I told her everything.
She gave me a hug and said "I LOVE YOU."
This was the 1st time she told me orally. I was really touched. She has hide it for so long, and I waited for nearly 2 years!
We gave each other a Goodbye hug.
XF what I want to tell you is that no matter what is the circumstances and the obstacles staying in front, I'll hold your hand tightly and we will face it and solve it together. I LOVE YOU!
I just want you to be my girl forever.
Let's work harder for our future ! Work together to achieve our dream and targets!
Good Luck XF.I will always be with you throughout the happiness and sadness!
BRO STAY STRONG! 2 more months to go until the next meet!
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