Times make you know a person better

I know her for nearly 2 years (since 7.12.2011). The last day of SPM. I still remember how I knew her. She sent a message to me via fb and then we started to chat and exchange the phone number.

Her mum always told me that if she went out with her friends that day, then maybe we are still a stranger now.

I really appreciate this relationship and I'm very thankful to GOD for letting her came into my life coloring my life.

Because of her I know I need to take care  feelings of others, I must have the responsibilities as a man, and most importantly she make me to know what is LOVE.

Some would say that love is selfless, you would sacrifice everything for her.I agreed in this statement but I would say love is the deep feeling inside your heart that make you a better person. You care for her, and you will never do anythings that depress her.

From the 1st day I knew her, I found there is a big change in her. She started to have her ambitious and also DREAMS. I see so much improvement in her, really proud with her,XF ♥ You are the best in my heart.

I always told XF , everyone has his/her capabilities and one should not underestimate himself/herself. God created us in the same and fair way. You are the only 1 exist in this world, YOU ARE YOU.You have your own uniqueness and your strength. It.takes time to discover.

XF remember what I told you ^_^ We are at the same boat now ,and there is not captain at the boat.Both of us are the same, we have the same strength and let's us roll together. 

I"ll be with you through the darkness and happiness.I hope you will also be around me whenever I'm in trouble and take care of me also :)

XF, Distance does not separate us. It makes our relationship even stronger. I love you XF , you are my girl ♥

15.10.2013

I was so shocked when XF suddenly said why I reply her message so short.She asked me whether I like it or not if she did the same things. I'm blur blur at the moment, then only I realized that she did not received my msg.

I called her for a few times, and she did not want to accept. She put down my call every time. I'm getting nervous and hope that she will not angry with me.

After she finished her lunch, she agreed to listen to my explainations. I explained everything to her, and we solved the misunderstanding among us.

Every time, I told myself it's important to calm down myself and analyses the problems. It's very important to talk with my partner rather than give each other silent treatment.

When we talk out, we know the problem.When we know the problem than only we know how to solve it. When we solve it, we make sure the problem will not re-occur for the next time. Hide the problem, will only make the problem become worsen and the relationship to fade.

Getting into relationship is easy, but how we sustain the relationship is different story :)

忍一时风平浪静，退一步海过天空...

13.10.2013

今天最舍不得的就是我家人和晓风.

早上六点多开车，七点多就到金宝了，大家开开心心地吃完早餐，然后就载哥哥回宿舍了。

跟哥哥道别了好多次。

然后，爸爸开车载我回KL。十点半就到了，家人帮我整理房间，整理到一小时多。妈妈看到我衣橱不整齐帮我一件一件拿出来，在折回去，看到后，真的很感动！

过后我们去附近的Shopping买些东西，在那里爸爸拿了两百块给我，爸爸总是一个人在外打拼，为了就是这个家，他从来不让家人饿着。他早出完归，从来没半句埋怨。

过后妈妈带我去买鞋，今天早上出门BLUR BLUR 穿错鞋，一边黑，一边蓝。妈妈看到后带我进Parkson找鞋，选了好久，我选了HUSH PUPPIES。（RM69.99）这是我吃到这样大，买过第一双最贵的鞋！我妈用自己的钱帮我还，当我拿钱给我妈时，她一直说不用不用！鞋很重要！我真的很感动

我有世上最好的爸爸妈妈，虽然小时我很叛逆，但他们从来对我都没放弃过我,总是把最好的都留给我们！

道别那刻，才知道脸泪已经滑落下来，我爱你爸爸妈妈...

14.10.2013

My 1st day of Y1S2.

早上去等巴士，看到菜头和他的朋友在吃roti canai， 我也去和他们谈谈天。

然后，tumpang他朋友的车去学校。

今天六点多就起床了，因为要去OFFICE 弄时间表的东西。

上了Emotional Intelligence 觉得有点困，因为那个Lecturer要我们去偷拍人家个种个样的emotion==

休息了一小时，就去上Power System ，给一个我喜欢的老师教，MR.WKS。因为他，我的Basic Electronic 得救了！

接下来German Language， 觉得还蛮有兴趣的，给一个幽默女讲师教。她告诉我们关于许多德国的东西.

What I most amazed is this.

GERMAN AUTOBAHNS

 

 

 

There is no maximum speed in this highway but there is minimum speed for it. You will get tickets when You Drive Too SLOW ! Yaya, this is not a joke.

Source:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/German_autobahns

After that, she guided us for few simple words such as Afpel(Apple), Maus(Mouse),
and etc.

What I noticed in her is that she like to say:"Good boy; Yaya"==Lol

Finished my class today at 4pm and went to borrow 2 books for Power System. By the time I walked out from the library, the sky starts to pour out. It's raining cats and dogs. It was too late to realize that I do not carry any umbrealla with me.I ran for a distance.

When I reached home, I went to eat orange then only bath.

Suddenly, my landlord came into my room and said he need a help. He said there are problems for internet. He had called for maintenance and he need me to stay in the room for Wednesday

I agreed. He gave me the task of leader (RM20 discount per month!)

12.10.2013

Went Victoria Restaurant to eat with XF's family and her small aunt's family.

XF's mum and small aunt gave me an assignment. They hope that XF's phone can be confisticated until XF finish her STPM, so that she can be focus more and do more preparation.

I was really shocked and definitely felt some stress, because they have totally ignoring me.

After finishing the dinner, we went Sunway for a walk. I didn't talk with XF for a long time until she asked me, do I have any intention to give up in this relationship.

I answered honestly.

I gave XF silent treatment for a few minutes, until I explained to her.

I really no need you to accompany me often. What I needed is just that, you can send me a sms when you want to sleep and so on.

I told XF the secret hide inside myself. I told her everything.


She gave me a hug and said "I LOVE YOU."

This was the 1st time she told me orally. I was really touched. She has hide it for so long, and I waited for nearly 2 years!

We gave each other a Goodbye hug.

XF what I want to tell you is that no matter what is the circumstances and the obstacles staying in front, I'll hold your hand tightly and we will face it and solve it together. I LOVE YOU!

I just want you to be my girl forever.

Let's work harder for our future ! Work together to achieve our dream and targets!

Good Luck XF.I will always be with you throughout the happiness and sadness!

BRO STAY STRONG! 2 more months to go until the next meet!

11.10.2013

Today went bank together with siao fong .After that I bought her to eat laksa which I had promised her earlier.

在要回的时候我告诉晓凤，要把自己不满的东西说出来，这样我才知道晓凤的想法^_^

感情是双方面的，唯有双方的努力，才能对彼此更加了解，这样也减少了许多不必要的冲突，争执及不愉快！

晓凤，不管什么，你一定要勇敢把自己的想法说出来一起讨论^_^打勾勾的哦！

咳咳，刚在路上时收到晓凤的信息说要我检查书包因为有张纸条，我那时超紧张的，以为晓凤会说什么…

没想到我看到的是三百块==然后一个纸条说这是她妈妈小小的心意!晓凤也说会等我回来的^_^

这是她第二次塞钱给我了，上次五十块，那张五十还在钱包^_^

这次我希望晓凤能暂时保管，准备我们去旅行的钱^_^

晓凤谢谢你！真的很感恩！因为你让我知道许多东西，也让我看到自己许多的缺点，让我一直想办法改进自己^_^在你面前永远是最真实的现斐！

晓凤，我们十二月见哦^_^

别忘记我对你说过的话哦！一定要好好照顾自己，累了就休息，凡事尽力就好^_^加油晓凤！永远在你身旁支持你^_^

SWEAT

For nearly 2 years , I'm her driver for all of the times.

But yesterday she fetched me home.

Hahaha, I really got some scared.

Miraculously, I arrived home safetly and my mum gave her a few pieces of home made "Guo tie".

3 weeks will ended soon , and it is time to say goodbye again.

I am really appreciate every moments with u^_^ Must take care o! See you in December!

6.10.2013

晓风妈妈今天问我，真的很想和她女儿走？

“嗯嗯，但晓风说过约定到时还要经过她妈妈的同意”。

 她妈顿了一会，说女儿丢了一粒bomb给她。（感觉得出她很感动，因为宝贝女儿很尊敬她）

最近感觉她的妈妈好像把我当成她的儿子一样看待，和我谈了很多，对我也是很关心:)

晓风的妈妈说，她最希望女儿能找到一个能疼她，照顾她的男生，不一定要有钱，但一定要真心。她也说如果我们真心想在一起，两个人一定要有定力！

最后她说她会祝福我们的^^

为人父母最希望的除了希望儿女能出人头地的一天，当然也少不了希望儿女幸福:)

今天出门不久就下大雨了，我们呆在车上谈天，然后雨停后就去附近的公园欣赏雨后的景色。

和晓风在一起的时间总是过得好快，没过多久我也得回去读书了，下次回来就是我们的约定了。

今天和晓风打个勾勾，两个人一定要尊敬对方，为列者必须写悔过书 !

4.10.2013

今天和晓凤的妈妈一起合作^_^嘻嘻，我们合作成功，晓凤看到我
出现在她的面前真的吓了一跳！

原来晓凤因为我而没有陪她的朋友们一起看戏，真的好感动！

在路上我们聊了好多，也更了解晓凤的妈妈了^_^

晓凤妈妈说会祝福我们两个，然后是看我们两个的定力了^_^

晓凤妈妈请我吃韩国餐(Salmon ,sea weed rice)^_^我和晓凤一人一半，现在每次和晓凤同座都会夹食物给她了，这样她就可以吃多点了^_^

我拿给她，她一定吃的^_^今天真的好开心♥晓凤♥

3.4.2013

今天早教完书以为可以早点回家休息，没想到因为没带头灰，而被警察拦下来，最后谈判成功-请他吃一餐(50块==)

咳咳，本来十块的，他嫌太少，说他站了那么久，很热==

今天，和晓凤打勾勾，两人说永远都不可以离开对方，两个人要携手到老^_^跟晓凤在一起，我学会了打勾勾^_^

而晓凤也答应了我很多事，我希望晓凤能更有自信♥晓凤，每个人都有自己的优点和缺点，在这世上你是独一无二的，你就是你^_^没有任何clone!晓凤最棒^_^

今天把自己从小到现在存的钱交给晓凤，觉得自己所有的事情晓凤都知道了^_^

两个人的梦想，两个人的目标，两个人的心愿，现在就让我们一起手牵手把它完成♥